Monday, September 21, 2009

Happy Birthday little man

Happy Birthday Cooper.

Wow you turn 3 years old tomorrow.

I can't beleive it, you have grown into a beautiful natured boy. You have been through so much, so many wakeful and painful nights over those three years. I'm amazed that you've got such a good nature after the sleep depravation you've experienced.

It sometimes feels as though your baby years slipped through my hands. I was in such a blurred state of mind, after experiencing night after night of no sleep. I think months of you being a 'baby' were basically erased from my brain.

But look where you've come. You are now a very independant 3 year old.
Let me describe you at 3 years of age. Where do I start?

For starters you bring our family so much happiness and make us break into smiles and laughter with your funny antics. You love your big sister, and look to her for guidance, friendship, consolance and fun. Your days are filled playing outside with Kenya in earth's resources including sand, mud and water. The odd leaf or caterpiller also helps enormously when creating those beautiful cup cakes made of oozing mud.

You enjoy a bit of bike riding out in the backyard...it helps to pass time. The sound effects you make with your lips and mouth also make the bike move faster and suddenly turn it into a very powerful red motorbike.

You are such a loving affectionate child. You come into our bed and it's like having a beetle on top of me in the morning. You just cling onto me for dear life. You always love a cuddle.

Our outings to the park are always entertaining but you love Helicopter park the most. You're at the age where a ball has to accompany you to the park. What's the point of of going to a park with perfectly good grass, if you don't take your ball?

You like drawing, and are good at drawing cars and people. I'm sure you will find other material out in our big blue world that will inspire you to move beyond the cars and people. Maybe balls or trees?

You are still my baby boy and will always be my little man. You came up to me this morning and said 'mummy cuddle', I quickly scooped you into my arms and held you tight, savouring the moment. Thinking in my head...enjoy this moment and freeze it.

You enjoyed your chocolate birthday cake (My own concoction) and quickly devoured it. It was loaded with sugar, but hey what the hell. You only ever turn 3 once in your life.

We love you. Happy birthday beanie.

2 comments:

Chapter Forty said...

Wow Liz. You have brought tears to my eyes. This is a beautiful piece of writing with so much love for your little man. There is something so amazing about the bond between a mother and child. Love is in all your words.
What a great blog for you and Coops. I hope it gives you support, connection and joy as you both face these sugary issues.
Rx

Unknown said...

Hey Liz, your blogs are making me cry and but giving me hope..I feel like you and I have met before..we sound so much alike!! all the love we have for our kids is awesome...tee hee the first thing I thought when we were told was OH god what will I do for his 2nd B'day!!
would love to meet up with you sometime..as I 2 live in adelaide!
kylee n James.